A Better Alternative For a Confident
Future
In today's world there are many options for a young lady
who wants to have a physical relationship with a guy, but
not get pregnant. Growing up we are taught that birth control
pills, patches, and condoms are suitable inhibitors of pregnancy.
The only question is can they entirely prevent an unplanned
pregnancy? The answer to that question depends on who you
ask, but my personal answer is no. As with most problems there
is always a second option. In this situation, a second option
for preventing pregnancy would be abstinence. It is my personal
conviction that abstinence is the only certain obstruction
to pregnancy. It is also my unrestricted intention to thoroughly
explain why I believe this to be true.
To start off, man is not perfect. Since man is not perfect,
one could conclude that anything man made will be capable
of errors. This would include every birth control product
on the market. Truly understanding this fact can leave a person
feeling very insecure about a great number of things including
birth control. Multiple advertisements designed to make one
feel secure about their birth control options pop up on every
street corner, magazine, and television across America. Most
of the time they succeed in making young ladies feel secure
until an unexplained error occurs and they find out they are
pregnant. The truth is there is only one birth controller
that you can put absolute security in that will not fail,
and that is abstinence. There is no safe birth controller
that can guarantee the prevention of pregnancy all the time.
Abstinence is the only secure way to prevent an unplanned
pregnancy. Considering the fact that birth control products
are fallible, let me ask you a question. Is there a way to
have safe sex and not get pregnant? Again, your answer may
be different than mine, but my personal answer is no, there
is not. When using birth control products there will always
be a risk. I've always believed that the only true way to
overcome this risk is abstinence. If you don't engage in sex
you can't get pregnant, and that's a fact you can believe:
Abstaining from all sexual conduct will guarantee you will
not get pregnant. The world claims that there is such a thing
as safe sex. If you believe this I challenge you this day
to prove it and show me evidence to back up this claim. Personally,
I don’t believe the world's claim, and if you are wise,
you won’t either. How can sex be safe when you run the
risk of getting pregnant? Don't be a fool! There is no such
thing as safe sex.
In conclusion the choice is yours. No one else can make the
decision for you. Which will you choose? Whether abstinence
or birth control products, it’s entirely up to you.
Whatever you decide just know that you alone will have to
live with the consequences. The keys to a confident future
are in your hands. It's up to you to use them. I decided a
long time ago that I’m not going to have sex until I
am married. Abstinence is the only way I can have complete
control over my future. My challenge to you is simple. Make
the time to consider your options before you do something
you’ll regret. Think about your future and what you
want in life. Ask yourself this question. Which choice will
give me complete confidence in my future? Don’t rush
yourself because what you decide will play a huge part in
your life. God gave us many undeniable rights including the
power to make up our minds. Don't be irresponsible! Don’t
abuse your power!
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